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Mediation

A negotiation between two individuals, with the help of a neutral, trusted third party.
In family law mediation, separating spouses work with a trained, neutral third party known as a mediator to reach an agreement on some or all of their family law issues. The mediator’s role is to listen to both sides of the story and, without bias, help the two of you discern your true interests, communicate “communicate with each other and agree on a creative solution that will allow you to move forward. We work with several qualified, skilled mediators, and are able to recommend the right individual to work with you. One of Connect’s lawyers can be present with you, advising you throughout the mediation process.
Four of our family lawyers, Leisha Murphy, Geeta Gill, Mark Chiu and Raman Sehmbi, are also certified family mediators. To learn more about retaining Leisha, Geeta, Mark or Raman as a mediator, check out our mediation website.
Mediation offers many of the same advantages as collaborative family law: it is cheaper, less antagonistic, less formal, and more efficient than going to court. As well, it is a private process, unlike litigation which is public. It is voluntary and provides you and your separating spouse with the space to work together on creative solutions that might not even be possible in court. An additional advantage over a collaborative approach is that there is a third party with expertise in both family law and mediation whose job it is to keep the process on track and moving forward.
Mediation will be appropriate for many of the same people who are considering a collaborative law or negotiated approach. A history of family violence is not necessarily a bar to mediation if the proper safety precautions are taken; in appropriate circumstances, mediation can occur by the mediator “shuttling” between rooms.
Did you know?
Negotiation outside of court has an astonishingly high success rate
In British Columbia, 89% of said cases resulted in a full settlement or a partial settlement.
FAQs
In family law mediation, separating spouses work with a trained, neutral third party known as a mediator to reach an agreement on some or all of their family law issues. The mediator’s role is to listen to both sides of the story and, without bias, help the two of you discern your true interests, communicate with each other and creatively agree on a solution that will allow you to move forward. We work with several qualified, skilled mediators, and are able to recommend the right individual to work with you. One of Connect’s lawyers can be present with you, advising you throughout the mediation process.
Four of our family lawyers, Leisha Murphy, Geeta Gill, Mark Chiu and Raman Sehmbi are also certified family mediators. To learn more about retaining one of our mediators, click here or check out our mediation website.
When you jointly retain a mediator, the mediator acts as a neutral third party in assisting with communication and negotiation, and as a lawyer-mediator, they can draft a separation agreement, but they cannot give either of you legal advice. The mediator can provide legal information as you walk through each issue, but you would be encouraged to each obtain independent legal advice (from a list of recommended lawyers) prior to signing a final agreement.
When you and your spouse both individually retain a lawyer, you have the option of attending mediation with a mediator outside of our office. Your individual lawyer will guide you through the mediation process and provide you with legal advice throughout the mediation process.
Mediation offers many of the same advantages as collaborative family law: it is less expensive, and more efficient than going to court. As well, it is a private process, unlike court, which is public. It is voluntary and provides you and your separating spouse with the space to work together on creative solutions.
Leisha Murphy**
After being a family lawyer for over 13 years, coupled with my own personal experience with divorce, I have come to understand the difficult transition that comes with the end of a relationship. This experience has put me in the unique position of being able to provide clients with a clear picture of what is to come and how to plan for it. As well as provide clients with guidance and education on how to deal with the day-to-day realities of a separation.
After routinely going to court in my first decade as a lawyer, I came to see how destructive that process can be for families, both financially and emotionally. That is the reason my practice is focused on reaching out-of-court settlements, either through collaborative divorce or mediation/negotiation. These processes reduce legal fees, stress and anxiety and allows parents to maintain a workable relationship going forward.
From personal and professional experience, I realized that family law clients often need more than just legal support. It was this understanding that inspired me, together with business partner Simon Kent, to build a law firm where clients can access a community of support and feel empowered to move through the transition of separation/divorce to a better place. This is also why we offer each Connect client a complementary 1.5 hour counselling/coaching session with mental health professionals that specialize in separation and divorce.
While I advise clients on all areas of family law (including child support, spousal support and parenting), I specialize in creating workable and creative solutions for the division of businesses and trusts (including the tax implications of those divisions). This expertise carries over to my practice as a certified family law mediator. I also prepare marriage and cohabitation agreements dealing with business and property interests, family trusts and anticipated inheritances. As a result of seeing first-hand the difficulties faced by couples in a separation, I prepare marriage and cohabitation agreements with an eye to eliminating or decreasing acrimony should a separation occur in the future.
Given I am now at an age where life is full of stressors, I have taken up meditation (and try to do it daily) as well as recently adopted a dog, which I have read is supposed to bring calm and love. The jury is out on whether either endeavor is working, but all we can do is try.
Simon Kent
I am an employment lawyer that started Kent Employment Law in 2002 and I don’t practice family law. So what’s the connection with Connect Family Law? Well, Connect Family Law was born at a Canadians baseball game in the summer of 2015. It was there that I talked with Leisha Murphy about our shared interest in creating a family law firm where the lawyers made it their mission to “do no harm” in service to their family law clients.
Both Leisha and I had seen first-hand the damage to families that family law litigation could inflict. I had gone through a decade long high-conflict divorce that had caused harm to all involved. It was emotionally and mentally exhausting as well as financially damaging – and those were the effects on a person (me) who was a lawyer and who already understood the court process. Leisha had gone through divorce as a child and then witnessed, through her work as a family lawyer, the damage that high-conflict divorce litigation brought to families unfortunate enough to have gone through that process.
Together we endeavoured to build a family law firm where all lawyers and staff share the ethos of “do no harm”. A firm that is focused on supporting families as they restructure, as they find their way through what may amount to the most difficult time in their lives. We are resolution focused. We don’t brag about winning in court – we talk about changing relationships; about helping clients see the big picture; about moving to closure and the promise of tomorrow.
My roll at Connect is on the business side of the operation. I help with the day to day running of the firm at our multiple locations.
I am the father of three amazing daughters. I enjoy skiing (both cross country and downhill), hiking, and I recently got back into playing squash.
Alex Boland**
Every life contains great transitions. I hope to help my clients through their separation with compassion, integrity, intelligence and dignity. I try and see each file on its own merits, and this means that I want to work with my clients to develop an approach that moves them forward towards their particular goals. Practically speaking, I prefer to take a collaborative approach to files where possible; I like to apply the specialized knowledge and competencies I’ve developed over my practice to challenging problems; and I like to exercise compassion in all that I do.
I have practiced family primarily, and nearly exclusively, in my ten+ years of practice. I write and present frequently on family law topics and am a contributing author to the leading BC family law texts (CLEBC’s Family Law Sourcebook and Annotated Practice). I am active in the collaborative divorce community and the Canadian Bar Association.
I am an aspiring outdoors person. I find peace and restoration exploring the terrain around us, generally on foot and preferably for as long as possible. I moved to the Okanagan in 2018, and one of my great pleasures has been to build a connection to the land and people here.
I love to read, and am usually wrestling through a hodgepodge of novels, poetry, and non-fiction.
Mahshid Hoseini**
Family law practice is not for the faint of heart. Throughout my years in this field, I’ve come to recognize that, even in seemingly amicable situations, the journey remains emotionally, psychologically, and financially challenging for many families. With this in mind, I am dedicated to shaping a practice that serves as a source of solace during tough times, rather than adding fuel to the fire.
My specialization spans a broad spectrum of family issues, including guardianship, parenting, child support, spousal support, and the equitable division of property and debt. I bring expertise to the preparation of complex cohabitation and marriage agreements, as well as separation agreements. As a practitioner of Collaborative Law and mediation, I focus on facilitating empowering resolutions and fostering a cooperative environment that promotes effective communication and understanding among parties.
For me, the journey of resolving family matters is as crucial as the destination. I recognize that the experience is as important as the ultimate outcome. With a background in litigation, I advocate for a more beneficial and healthier approach during separations, redirecting resources from costly court proceedings towards more impactful and constructive use of resources. Drawing on my experience assisting a former British Columbia Supreme Court Justice in mediations, I provide effective and creative solutions for fair and amicable resolutions.
Clients describe me as professional, knowledgeable, responsive, and compassionate, acknowledging my reasonable and realistic approach. I prioritize keeping clients well-informed about the legal process and associated costs.
After fulfilling roles as Secretary and Registration Officer for the Canadian Bar Association, my dedication to community development persists through my involvement in the steering committee of Emerging Family Law Lawyers (ELF). This organization is dedicated to fostering a supportive community for fellow lawyers and articling students, focusing on the growth and development of the next generation of legal professionals.
Outside the legal domain, I like to immerse myself in the beauty of British Columbia through hiking and camping. I enjoy cooking and am on a perpetual quest to discover the perfect cup of coffee. More recently, I’ve ventured into the realm of mixology, aiming to craft the ultimate cocktail.
Geeta Gill
I am a collaborative family law lawyer, mediator and parenting coordinator. I was drawn to family law because of its interaction among people, family and relationships, and having an undergraduate degree in psychology. With more than 18 years of legal experience, I have dealt with all aspects of family law, whether it be through the separation and divorce process or in the preparation of cohabitation and marriage agreements.
I am committed to bringing not only experience and skill to my practice, but also genuine compassion for every client and their family. Each client has unique circumstances and I work with them to provide practical solutions to meet their individual needs. In my practice, I prefer to take a non-adversarial approach through negotiations, mediation and the Collaborative divorce process to minimize conflict, cost and stress for my clients.
I have been interested in law since I was a child, and to this day enjoy being involved in and contributing to the legal community. I am a member of the Canadian Bar Association – Family Law Subsection, having previously served on the executive and as co-chair of the section for two years. I am also a member of the B.C. Parenting Coordinators Roster Society and previously sat on its board of directors for a two-year term. In addition, I am a previous author of updates for the Continuing Legal Education Society of B.C.’s Family Law Practice Manual and have been a member of the Practice Manual’s editorial board. I have enjoyed speaking at meetings of the Canadian Bar Association and presenting at CLE courses.
Outside of my family law practice I love travelling and exploring new places and people, running and yoga, spending time with family and friends and, after a hard day, unwinding with a glass of wine and a good book.
Milena Scekic
Since being called to the British Columbia Bar in 2020, I have supported clients in resolving a wide array of family law disputes both within and outside of the court system. I have attended trial in the Supreme Court of British Columbia and observed first-hand the mental and financial toll that prolonged litigation can have on a family. My approach is centred on amicable, out-of-court settlements, wherever possible. In my experience, this is usually a much more affordable and less strenuous process than the traditional court route, with healthier consequences for the whole family, long-term.
My primary role at Connect Family Law is assisting our team of lawyers with complex research, litigation support and preparing separation and cohabitation/marriage agreements.
Outside of the law, I enjoy the stillness and quiet of a great (usually tragic) novel, a lush forest, and my yoga practice.
Thomas Eaves
Separation is a challenging time for all involved. Together with the team at Connect Family Law, I am here to help you through the inevitable ups and downs of divorce.
My values of integrity, organization and focus assist in keeping you on the most efficient path forward. My goal is to help you navigate through this tough time as smoothly as possible. One of my strengths is identifying issues that are important to you to ensure the final outcome works best for you and your family.
While I have never shied away from the courtroom, I understand prolonged conflict causes stress and can have a negative emotional and financial impact on my clients; and as a result, should be used as a last resort. For that reason, I do everything that I can to help my clients reach out-of-court settlements, be it through negotiation or mediation.
I handle a wide range of family law issues, including parenting issues, child support, property division, and spousal support. I possess a solid commercial litigation background which means I can assist with complex financial matters. My clients have included national banks, S&P TSX 60 listed corporations, professionals and small and medium sized businesses. I am a proud graduate of the Queen’s University Faculty of Law in Ontario and was called to the bar in British Columbia and Alberta in 2012.
I also have wide-ranging experience in areas where family and civil matters intersect. If you are not a party to a family proceeding but would like to assert an interest in family property or make a claim as a creditor, I am well suited to help you. Similarly, I can assist where shareholder disputes are at issue.
I believe in being there for my clients. I know these situations are difficult, so I am ready to listen and offer support.
I love Kelowna and everything that it has to offer. I am a director of the Downtown Kelowna Association where I advocate for a fun, connected, and vibrant city. I spend my free time enjoying the community with my family, cycling throughout the region, and yelling at my TV early in the mornings each weekend while watching the Liverpool Football Club.
N. Noemi Argueta
I define my practice by my passion for helping others and my desire to connect people with the legal services they need and deserve. For me, family law is about assisting individuals navigate their matter in the most efficient and non-litigious manner possible, focusing on out-of-court options where appropriate. I find this is often the most cost-efficient and least emotionally taxing avenue for people, circumstances permitting. With this in my mind, I’m on course to complete my mediation training by the Spring of 2024.
I provide assistance on various family law issues and take a particular interest in issues regarding guardianship, adoption, parenting and Hague applications. I also focus on reaching amicable settlements.
I completed my law degree at the University of British Columbia in 2017 with a focus on social justice. During my time at UBC, I completed an externship through Rise Women’s Legal Centre, a community legal centre which provides legal services to individuals who self-identify as women. I also provided translation service for LSLAP, a non-profit legal advice program run by students.
After graduating I articled at a mid-sized firm, working on a wide range of civil matters but ultimately decided to pursue a career in Family Law with a forward thinking firm.
Before becoming a lawyer, I worked as a social worker and lived abroad. I am bilingual in both English and Spanish. I used to speak fluent German and conversational Romanian but as they say, if you don’t use it, you lose it.
Outside of work, I love travelling (who doesn’t?), languages and immersing myself in new cultures. In total, I’ve been to 28 countries and lived in 4 different countries. I also enjoy trying my hand at new home renovations projects. To me, it’s like a form of art but instead of starting with a blank canvass you have to be able be able to see through the mess and create something beautiful with what you have.
Maninder Sandhu
Navigating the complexity of family transitions is not always an easy task, especially when deciphering its interaction with the legal realm. Whether helping smooth the path as you end a relationship or crystalize your future intentions in a marriage or co-habitation agreement, I strive to remain a steadying presence by helping you understand your legal obligations while advocating for your rights. Given my own deep commitment to family, relationships and connections, I am honoured to support individuals as they enter new relationships or move through a time of turmoil into a new life chapter.
I completed undergraduate studies at Simon Fraser University, following which I pursued formal law training first at the University of Birmingham and then at the University of British Columbia. Both professionally and personally, I approach new experiences with optimism and an open-mind.
When not at work, I enjoy blogging through shemodish.com and spending quality time with my loved ones, including my husband and an adorable toddler.
Working primarily out of the Abbotsford and Surrey office, I advise my clients in English, Punjabi, and Hindi.
Julia Chalkley
More often than not, the idea of retaining a lawyer is coupled with stress and apprehension. Whether due to the conflict in your life or unfamiliarity with the law, I aim to change those feelings and perceptions through my practice by being approachable and personable, while not shying away from direct advice and difficult conversations. I take great pride in ensuring my client’s feel supported and heard throughout trying circumstances. I seek to empower clients to take charge in the legal process by distilling what can be complex jargon and overwhelming procedures.
Prior to joining Connect, I practiced family law at a boutique litigation firm. I have substantial courtroom experience and have assisted clients through both Provincial and Supreme Court trials. While I encourage out of court resolution, my time at a litigation firm ensures that when court action is required, I have the ability to skillfully represent my client’s best interests.
I graduated from the University of Toronto with a Psychology Specialist Degree and obtained my law degree from the University of Ottawa, both with distinction. Throughout my studies I volunteered with the Women’s Legal Mentorship Program, the Environmental Law Clinic, and the ARCH Disability Law Clinic.
Growing up I was fortunate enough to be introduced to a love of travelling. I did exchange programs during my studies and attended universities around the world, such as Oxford. This same passion took me to Kenya to volunteer at an orphanage in Nairobi and, on a whim, spend a summer in the Okanagan.
Originally born and raised in Ontario, that summer in the Okanagan struck such a chord with me that I packed up my life in Toronto and made the move across Canada. I take every opportunity I can to enjoy the beauty and lifestyle Kelowna has to offer, whether through hiking, camping, road biking or Nordic skiing.
Recently the past President of the Kelowna Bar Association, I look forward to the next endeavour to give back to a community I love to call home.
Larissa Sleva
I take pride in practicing with compassion and empathy to assist clients through what is often one of the most difficult times in their lives punctuated by emotional turmoil. When children are involved, I encourage the parties to always keep the best interests of the children first. Through collaborative law and mediation training I have learned the skills necessary to focus on helping clients achieve a resolution that is less time consuming and expensive than litigation. Where alternatives to litigation are not appropriate, I effectively advocate for my clients through the court process, helping them make their voices heard.
I am able to assist you with separation and divorce; property and debt division; child and spousal support; and guardianship and parenting time. I also draft cohabitation, marriage and separation agreements protecting your rights and entitlements.
My sense of adventure and love for travel is demonstrated by my background and education. Born in Canada and raised in the United States, I studied at The Ohio State University and Arizona State University prior to completing my degree in Criminology with Honours at Simon Fraser University in British Columbia. In 2014, I moved to Australia and graduated with a Juris Doctor from Bond University Law School in 2016 and a Graduate Diploma in Legal Practice in 2017. I was admitted as a lawyer to the Supreme Court of Queensland in 2017 and as a registered practitioner in the High Court of Australia in 2018. While in Australia, I practiced both family and criminal law, often dealing with family violence matters as a result of the intertwined area between the two. Eventually I returned to Canada to make my home where I was called to the bar in British Columbia in 2022. Prior to joining Connect Family Law, I articled and practiced at a boutique law firm where I focused primarily on family law.
I am actively involved in the mentoring program in the Women Lawyers Forum, a subsection of the Canadian Bar Association that bolsters women in the legal profession. I also volunteer with Amici Curiae, a free trauma-informed service designed to promote access to justice. In my free time, I enjoy exploring new restaurants, yoga, wine tasting, travel and spending time with my family and friends. I adore animals, especially my rescue cat Roo who I brought home with me from Australia. I am also an avid Formula 1 Racing and College Football fan.
Daniel MacNeill
My guiding principles as a family lawyer are compassion and pragmatism. I understand the unique, and often emotionally fraught, challenges that come with any separation and offer calm and practical guidance through a difficult time. I see separation as a transition, not a “new normal”, and work with my clients to reach a positive resolution so they can move forward with their lives.
As a strong believer in access to justice, I first discovered my passion for family law while spending a law school semester at Rise Women’s Legal Centre, providing free family law representation and advice to low-income women. I went on to article with Rise and I continue to volunteer with them regularly.
Since becoming a lawyer, I have exclusively practiced family law. I have represented a broad spectrum of clients, from Legal Aid clients while operating my own firm, Thakur MacNeill LLP, to high net-worth clients while working at a mid-size firm in Downtown Vancouver. My varied experience has equipped me with the knowledge and flexibility to tailor effective solutions to each of my client’s unique needs.
Having appeared frequently in the Supreme Court of British Columbia, I have learned the value of a settlement-oriented approach to family law. I have witnessed the emotional toll that litigation takes on clients and wherever possible I deescalate conflict and formulate creative solutions to dispute through negotiation and mediation. Where out-of-court resolution is unavailable, I am prepared to proceed to court and advocate for my clients. I approach every court application with diligence, professionalism, and integrity.
Outside of the office, I enjoy spending time with my dogs, Yeori and Hong-Shi; nerding out about Dungeons & Dragons; and getting together with my friends.
Mark Chiu**
I have practiced law in British Columbia since 2014. I use my skills as a negotiator and trial lawyer to solve family law problems. I am also a certified Family Law Mediator.
I became a lawyer after learning during my undergraduate studies in psychology that the most stressful life events are the death of a spouse, divorce, marital separation, and imprisonment. I find purpose and meaning in assisting others through their most difficult and stressful times.
In addition to my involvement in family law cases, I have represented the Public Prosecution Service of Canada, and have acted as criminal defence counsel, including in the jury system.
I have experience in family law cases that involve the Family Maintenance Enforcement Program and the Ministry of Children and Family Development.
I find the practice of law rewarding. I enjoy putting a “deal” together without the need for judicial intervention. I also enjoy using the formal trial process.
My current family law practice includes:
- division of family property, including assets held by corporations or those held in a trust;
- parenting disputes, including those involving parental alienation or estrangement;
- cases which also intersect the criminal justice system;
- relocation and mobility cases;
- support issues, including imputation or determination of the parties’ income;
- conducting and participating in settlement meetings and mediations; and
- conducting any necessary appeals.
I am an active volunteer for Access Pro Bono. I have also acted as Family Law Duty Counsel for Legal Aid BC.
As it relates to my practice style, my goal is to make decisions like an entrepreneur, prepare and compete like an athlete, and have the soul and integrity of a humanitarian.
During the summer, I am often cycling, paddle boarding, and walking. During the winter, I am often snowboarding. Year-round, my commitment to a yoga practice is deeply rewarding.
I also enjoy indulging in music, spoken audio, and film. I enjoy watching combat sports, basketball, and the Olympics. I prefer to read non-fiction.
I value traditional family values, respecting elders, and caring for the young.
Raman Sehmbi
I strive to live life in accordance with the Zoroastrian principal of “good thoughts, good words, good deeds.” When I take on a file, my main objective is to determine how I can help this family stay out of Court and create true resolution that is functional and prioritizes healing. While court is sometimes necessary, my belief is that a resolution that the parties have a say in is often one that has longevity. As an accredited family law Mediator and collaboratively trained family lawyer, I see the value in discussing issues as opposed to being adversarial. My passion for collaborative family law is what drives me to help families settle their matters as amicably as possible so we can keep grieving families out of court and focused on healing and what is most important: family.
I can assist you with issues pertaining to property and debt division, spousal and child support, parenting arrangements, and divorce. I offer mediation, Collaborative family law services, and a settlement-oriented family law practice. I also draft cohabitation, marriage, and separation agreements; provide independent legal advice, and offer limited scope services when suitable.
Outside of the office, you can find me out on the open road, in the passenger’s seat of my partner’s car, with no destination. I have a love for life and am always looking for the next adventure, which is why I studied international relations and commerce during my undergraduate degree at the University of British Columbia and completed a semester abroad through the BISC program during law school at Queen’s University. I serve on the National Board of Directors for Celiac Canada and enjoy experimenting with gluten-free recipes. When I’m not planning my next adventure, I’m likely on a reformer at my favourite Pilates studio or enjoying a cardamom-rose tea or coffee with my loved ones.
London Battye
I was raised in the Okanagan, where I completed by undergraduate degree at the University of British Columbia Okanagan in 2020 and completed my law degree at Thompson Rivers University in 2023. During my time at law school, I obtained practical experience by summering at a small family law firm in the Okanagan and took part in a family law project with Elizabeth Fry creating resource material for community members navigating the family law system.
Upon graduating law school, I joined Connect as an articling student. I was called to the bar in 2024 and have remained working at Connect as a lawyer.
My interest in family law originates from my personal experiences within a disruptive family separation and I believe that my compassionate nature can assist families during their time of transition. My practice includes both settlement focused discussions and litigation. I believe that resolving issues outside of Court is beneficial to families, but there are times where litigation is necessary. I aim to be caring and personable with my clients, while providing honest, direct advice. I joined Connect because of its client-centered, collaborative approach to family law, which aligns with my own calm and compassionate approach to assisting clients.
Outside of work I enjoy crafting, designing, and event planning – from invitations, posters, and even website designing. I spend most of my off time with friends, family, and my golden retriever.
Alex Wang
My connection to family law comes from a deeply personal experience. During early years of my law practice, my sister went through a divorce. While supporting her, I experienced firsthand the emotional, psychological, and social implications of divorce. From that point on, I was determined to dedicate my practice to family law. I want to help clients through some of the most vulnerable times in their lives, and I understand the far-reaching impact of the legal process. I know that family law clients value supportive and trusted counsel, and I strive to provide exactly that.
I was first called to the Alberta Bar in 2019 and to the British Columbia Bar in 2021. I received legal education at Peking University and the University of Alberta. With a cross-cultural background and international connections, I am well-equipped to assist clients whose matters involve international elements. My work often involves complex matters such as family business valuations, multiple properties, income determinations, and child or spousal support.
Over the years, I have developed a diverse range of skills in family law, real estate law, immigration law, and estate planning. This broader perspective allows me to identify potential issues that may affect clients beyond the immediate family law dispute. I take a proactive approach, offering advice designed to prevent unexpected challenges or future litigation.
I use an empathetic approach in my practice, always making my clients’ best interests my priority. I take the time to understand their perspectives and concerns so that I can meet their needs in the most effective way possible. I am committed to finding timely solutions with care and sensitivity, and I believe in empowering clients with knowledge so that they can make informed decisions. Informed decision-making helps foster financial stability, long-term happiness, and peace of mind.
Having extensive experience before the Supreme Court of British Columbia and Provincial Court of British Columbia, has shaped my belief in the importance of resolution-focused practice. I recognize the emotional and financial strain litigation places on families, and wherever possible, I work to de-escalate conflict and guide clients toward practical, negotiated, and mediated outcomes. When litigation is necessary, I am a tenacious advocate, representing my clients’ interests with skill and dedication.
Outside of my practice, I enjoy traveling and reading, staying active through running and swimming, and spending quality time with family and friends. At the end of the day, I often like to unwind with a walk around the neighbourhood.
Zack Halper-Johnson
Family law is complex not just in its legal intricacies, but in the deeply personal stories it carries. That’s why I approach each case with care, empathy and understanding. My practice focuses on reducing conflict wherever possible and supporting clients in making informed decisions that reflect their values and long-term goals. I’m committed to resolution-focused advocacy and above all, I strive to be a calm and reliable presence during what is often a very challenging chapter in a person’s life.
Before I joined the team at Connect, I cultivated diverse and well-rounded experience in multiple areas of law. I began my legal career articling in civil litigation, where I developed a strong foundation in problem-solving, adaptiveness and client-focused practice. Following my call to the bar, I joined the public service, working in constitutional and Aboriginal law. In that role, I advised government departments on complex legal issues involving jurisdictional disputes, Indigenous rights, and legislative interpretation. My experience in both the public and private sectors has deepened my understanding of the intersection between law, relationships, and community, and sharpened my ability to navigate sensitive matters with nuance and respect.
I grew up in the lower mainland, and have lived in several provinces, including Alberta and Nova Scotia. I began my journey in education at Simon Fraser University, where I earned a degree in criminology and cognitive science. Shortly after attaining my bachelor’s degree, I worked as a social worker with Fraser Valley Aboriginal Children and Family Services Society, where I developed a passion for all things family law. I then attended law school at Thompson Rivers University, working closely with my professors as a research analyst.
When I’m not at work, I’m usually doing my best to enjoy the beautiful Okanagan weather or traveling abroad with my family. I’m a big fan of biking, hiking and swimming. When I’m not out and about, I love to read and try my hand at creative writing.
Evelyn Kim
Empathy and kindness come first in everything I do. Family law presents unique emotional strain on all parties involved and my priority is relieving clients’ conflict and stress levels in any way I can.
I joined Connect shortly after my call to the bar in May 2025. During my articles, I practiced primarily criminal and family law at a litigation-focused firm, which exposed me to the true toll our court system takes on people – particularly, the children. I believe true advocacy means finding creative solutions to set parties on a long-lasting path to peaceful co-existence. However, should a file require court action, my litigation experience makes me well-equipped to zealously advocate for my clients.
I believe the key to every good solicitor-client relationship is honesty and trust. I aim to create a welcoming environment where clients feel safe to share all their true thoughts, opinions, and questions. Honesty is also a two-way street; I work to break down legal concepts in as simple and transparent a manner as possible and I don’t shy away from sharing the hard truths about a client’s case.
Access to justice will always be an important facet of my work. During law school, I worked and volunteered at numerous pro-bono organizations and continue to be involved in the public interest sector by volunteering with Access Pro Bono. I also prioritize employing trauma-informed, feminist, and anti-racist perspectives to my work.
Outside of law, I enjoy reading, crafting, and exploring new restaurants in this amazing city!
Doris Nadan
Over the years, I have cultivated extensive knowledge and experience across all aspects of managing a successful legal practice, including office administration, legal procedures, and court filings. As the firm’s Operations Manager and Senior Legal Assistant, I serve as a key resource and point of contact for both our legal team and support staff.
In my role, I am responsible for ensuring the seamless day-to-day operations of the firm. My duties include developing, implementing, and monitoring internal policies and procedures, managing administrative workflows, and maintaining compliance with court protocols and professional standards. I oversee case management systems, ensure deadlines and court appearances are properly tracked, and handle the preparation and review of legal documents and correspondence.
Additionally, I manage staff recruitment and onboarding, coordinate ongoing training and development initiatives, and supervise a dedicated team of legal support professionals. I work closely with leadership to support strategic planning, improve operational efficiency, and foster a collaborative and high-performing work environment.
Recognizing that reaching out to a family law firm can be an emotional and often stressful experience, I strive to create a warm and welcoming environment for every client. I take pride in offering a personable, compassionate, and professional approach that reflects our firm’s values.
Outside of the office, I enjoy reading, experimenting with new recipes – especially desserts, thanks to a serious sweet tooth, and travelling with my husband. I also cherish spending time with family and close friends.
Christina Manhas
Being people-oriented, friendly and outgoing, I was excited to join Connect Family Law and bring my seven years of experience as a legal assistant to the area of family law. Not only am I a fast learner, I am also an expert multi-tasker, having worked for eight years as a guest services associate with Carnival Cruises, where I had to deal with everything from shore excursions to reservations, billings, lost items, immigration issues and more. Helping often thousands of passengers in foreign ports was perfect for a problem-solver like myself, a skill that continues to come in very handy at Connect.
Now that I’m on dry land in my hometown of Vancouver, I like to spend my free time reading, cooking, baking, doing pilates and taking long walks with my dog, Ellie.
Tia Carte
As the Client Services Coordinator at Connect Family Law, my top priority is creating a welcoming, supportive experience for every client. With over a decade of experience in the hospitality and retail industries, I bring a deep understanding of how to make people feel seen, heard, and cared for—especially during what is often a challenging and emotional time in their lives.
I understand that new clients often reach out during periods of uncertainty. My role is to greet them with compassion, listen to their stories, and connect them with the right member of our talented legal team. I pride myself on my attention to detail and the ability to recall the little things that help clients feel more at ease and more at home.
Outside of work, you’ll find me at the dog park with my husband and three beloved pups—Peanut, Henry, and Noodle—or planning our next travel adventure. My husband and I also have a monthly tradition of trying out a new restaurant in the Vancouver area.
Arin Middar
I was always interested in the legal field and research. After graduating with a degree in Criminology in 2017, I worked as a policy researcher. I decided to switch to work that was more encompassing and client-focused, which led me to completing the legal administrative assistant program in 2020.
I quickly grew to love family law as a legal assistant and was motivated to become a paralegal. I returned to school to upgrade my skills and expand my knowledge.
I completed my family law paralegal studies at the end of 2022. I joined Connect Family Law in 2023, bringing with me four years of experience in legal policy research and two years of family law experience. I also come with a fully equipped candy drawer for the team to access when they please.
In my spare time, I enjoy walking along the seawall, drinking Aperol spritz on a patio, and trying out new recipes from Tiktok. I am also an avid cake and cookie decorator, but have had to take a step back due to the issue of an “apartment-sized” oven.
Saya G
With my background in the wild, unpredictable, and people-focused world of hospitality management, my professional skill set is unique yet perfectly suited to my work at Connect as a legal administrative assistant. My experiences as an event coordinator have helped me enhance my attention to detail and my ability to produce work of an exceptional quality. Did I ever expect to find myself working as a legal assistant? Not a chance! The universe works in mysterious ways, but lucky for me, it turns out that I love what I do here at Connect.
I am, at times, a key point of contact between Connect and clients who may be dealing with the emotional, financial or other stressors that can accompany family transitions. Mindful of this, my focus is on putting each client at ease during their interactions with the firm.
I also act as the in-house event coordinator at Connect and have had the pleasure of planning and executing many exciting firm functions throughout my career with the firm – most recently, a very successful firm wide cruise from Vancouver to San Francisco. Whether I’m planning holiday parties or preparing financial statements for negotiation settlements, I’ve got it covered.
When not at work, I am the quintessential “foodie”, always on the lookout for new and exciting concept restaurants to sample. Some of my other personal goals include travelling somewhere new every year with my family and writing and illustrating children’s books (with a little help from my toddler).
Terry Smy
I have over a decade in office administration, customer service and accounting experience in the legal field. In 2021 my career focus shifted to becoming a legal assistant specializing in family law. As Office Manager/ Legal Assistant, I am one of the first points of contact for clients navigating family legal matters while also overseeing the day-to-day support and office logistics for our Kelowna team. I take pride in establishing a connection with clients, offering them empathy during challenging times.
Interacting with my colleagues is a daily highlight, turning our workplace into a community of shared experiences. These colleagues aren’t just teammates; they’re the people who make the work even more meaningful and enjoyable.
In my spare time, I find joy in a variety of activities that allow me to unwind and explore my interests. A lover of the great outdoors, I often embark on hiking adventures, or camping with my family and dogs.
Hailey Jaillet
I have devoted my professional life to assisting and improving the lives of others, or advocating for those who cannot advocate for themselves. I like to think that this makes me a great fit for Connect Family Law. Before I joined Connect, my goal was to find a workplace that shared my values and my views. I am lucky enough to say that I have found it.
As an empathetic and compassionate person, I take every opportunity to connect with our clients on a more personal level and like to ensure our clients feel comfortable and relaxed when attending our office. I come from a large family that prides itself on remaining close and connected. This is also how I feel about my colleagues; close and connected.
Outside of work, I am a dedicated aunty, and a crafter with an extensive skill set that includes crocheting, and baking. When I am not busy with my nieces and nephews, I can’t be found as I am usually off on an adventure. I enjoy camping, fishing, hiking or discovering a new kayaking spot with my husband and two dogs.
Lindsey Henault
I am one of the faces of our Kelowna office, and am known for making clients feel right at home when they attend our office. I am consistently calm, kind and compassionate, and naturally receptive to clients, making them feel at ease even in the most stressful situations.
I have resided in the Okanagan for over 25 years. Previously in the service industry, I decided I needed a change. I became a Legal Assistant in 2019 through Okanagan College. Upon graduating, I have spent the last few years working in family law.
Adventurous by nature, in my free time, I enjoy experiencing what the Okanagan has to offer with my daughter and two dogs, Beckham and Gabriella. Whether it is finding new hiking trails, hidden beaches, wineries and everything in between.
Ramandeep Mann
With over 4 years of administrative experience and 2 years of accounting experience, I am well-equipped to act in my position as Connect’s Billing Coordinator. I am always up for challenges and love to assist our clients with any accounting related matters and provide administrative support to our firm.
I have gained extensive knowledge in my previous role at a law office focusing on Family and Real Estate Law. I have always had an interest in the legal field from a young age and aspire to continue advancing my skills and knowledge to help excel Connect Family Law to new heights. It is my goal to bring a younger perspective and fresh new ideas to Connect Family Law.
During my free time I like going for walks and spending time with my family. A few of my other hobbies include watching movies/shows and can’t forget online shopping! I enjoy travelling to new places and spending my summers by the water.
Jennifer Anderson
After more than two decades in customer service, I’ve developed a deep appreciation for supporting others with kindness, patience, and efficiency. In 2018, I decided to channel those skills into a new direction by attending SAIT and completing the Legal Assistant program. That step led me to the rewarding and ever-evolving world of residential real estate and now family law.
I recently made the move to Kelowna to be closer to my family, and I’m loving the opportunity to discover everything the beautiful Okanagan has to offer. Outside of work, I live on a horse farm surrounded by animals—something that brings me peace, joy, and the occasional muddy boots. Whether I’m organizing case files or tending to the chicken, I always strive to bring a calm, grounded presence and a genuine desire to help.
I am thrilled to be part of a team that values connection, compassion, and community, and I look forward to growing both personally and professionally here at Connect.
Lanie Giles
As Connect’s Accounting Manager, I am a key contact for management, billing clerks, lawyers, clients, and am a central player on the finance team. My background in the hectic world of hospitality management – which included customer service, operational, training and leadership roles – is evident in my ability to easily relate to people and remain cool under pressure.
After nearly 10 years running restaurants, I decided to broaden my professional skill set even further. To my existing Diploma in Hospitality Management and Degree in Hotel Resort Management (from UofC), I have added a Certificate in Financial Management (Professional Accounting) from BCIT, along with hands-on experience in bookkeeping and accounting. All in all the move to the world of accounting in the law industry has been exciting for both myself and the firm.
Outside of the office, I like to spend time with friends and family. I would like to travel to more countries overseas in the future, and I like hiking and long walks on the beach (I know, so cliché right?).
Tracy Halmos
As a busy mom of three children, I need to be organized. Luckily I love organization and process, which makes me an excellent human resources professional. I am also an excellent fit for Connect Family Law and am excited to use my skills to enhance Connect’s HR program and add value to the growing team.
HR always seemed like a natural fit for me. I enjoy working with people and thrive on the variety of work that HR provides.
When not working at Connect, I balance HR consulting for other small businesses and take care of my kids. You can often find me cheering on my kids at a hockey rink or on the soccer field and when I have a moment to myself, I love to take a walk.
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